Runway Inspired Looks by Infinite Love

Put the perfect finishing touch on your wedding look by choosing a hairstyle that compliments your overall wedding theme and design. When searching for the perfect hairdo for the big “I do’s,” it is always helpful to draw inspiration from the looks that have stunned audiences across the globe today. Browse through some of the hottest runway and red carpet looks below, then learn how to choose the perfect accessory to top off your look.

Runway Inspired Looks

Whether you are hosting a glamorous affair or a rustic chic gathering, the runway provides endless options of inspiration.

Red Carpet Inspired Looks

Check out these lovely ladies who rocked the red carpet this spring with flawless hairstyles that will set the pace for this bridal season’s stylish trends.

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Always A Bridesmaid Dress by Lori Fradkin, senior editor AOL

Congratulations! You have been selected as a bridesmaid in your friend’s wedding. Not only are you one of her closest friends, you also get a brand-new dress. Oh, sure, you will have to pay for it, and it could set you back a few hundred dollars once you factor in alterations, but let’s focus on the positive, shall we? Your friend assures you that this dress is not your average bridesmaid dress. This dress is gorgeous. It will look great on every skin tone and flatter every figure. In fact, if a musical starring Julie Andrews is ever written about this dress, “Flatter Every Figure” will be one of the songs.

You go to the bridal shop and try on a sample and let the saleswoman take your measurements. You stare at yourself in the mirror and try to picture how the dress will look when it’s three inches shorter and in a completely different color. It’s not bad, you admit. Your friend wasn’t lying. You hand over your credit card and go home. It’s just a matter of time before someone asks the inevitable: “Would you wear it again?”

If you’re like me, even if you’ve just acknowledged how inoffensive it really is, you answer no.

During my stints as a bridesmaid, I’ve found that there’s a big difference between whether I could wear a dress again and whether I would. To my friends’ credit, they have picked dresses that really did look nice, dresses that would not look out of place at a future party, and yet I have never allowed an encore. This is, in part, because of the way a dress is transformed by its first use – it’s no longer just a dress, it’s Friend’s Bridesmaid Dress. And when you’re constantly going to weddings with the same friends, this association does not go unnoticed. Once upon a time, you may have been able to get away with it at an out-of-town wedding with a different group of people – now, Facebook will tell on you. Then a certain married friend will write on your wall: “That dress looks familiar…”

But it’s not just a fear of getting caught that causes me to leave a beautiful chocolate-brown Badgley Mischka dress hanging in the closet at my parents’ house. It’s the realization that, even when the bride has our best interests at heart, it would be impossible for her to have the exact same taste as every woman in her bridal party. Just as I can recognize that Leonardo DiCaprio is an attractive man without being attracted to him, I can look at a dress and see that is pretty without being drawn to it as something I would choose for myself.

Clothes, whether they come from Zara or Dior, are one way we express ourselves. So when we receive compliments on an outfit, it’s not just our appearance at that moment that’s being praised but also our discernment – our ability to select the right piece for the occasion. We start picking out our clothes at a young age – or battling our parents to let us – because it’s a lot more satisfying to give yourself a mental “You did it!” sticker when you actually did do it. I have attended seventeen weddings in the past six years, so I’m certainly not above repeating outfits. I would just rather wear the one-shoulder cobalt-blue dress I found on my own four times (so far) than put on something that makes me feel even a smidge less special.

From the engagement party to the bridal shower, the cost of being a bridesmaid is not insignificant, so it’s not surprising that brides try to frame the dress as an investment that will pay off in the long run. But unless it’s one of those situations in which she merely specifies the color and lets the bridesmaids take it from there, I choose to view this purchase, like the penis straws used at the bachelorette party, as just part of the package. I don’t agree to be a bridesmaid to add to my wardrobe – I do it because my friend wants me to be part of her special day. What the dress looks like almost doesn’t matter.
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Newly Engaged and Shopping for a Wedding Gown? YOU MUST READ THIS!

Great article from the Huffington Post “What about the bride?” by Lisa Litt

Being an independent bridal gown retailer for most of my life (I am the third generation owner of my family’s bridal salon), I have seen many changes in our industry. The biggest change has been the onslaught of discount internet websites and huge warehouse chain stores. Other trends such as high necks and pouffy sleeves came and went (thankfully). Destination weddings are a welcome breath of fresh air (literally). And what about the current mini-trend of brides purchasing used, or as many prefer to call them “pre-owned” wedding gowns? (Really?)

With that said, the most curious change has been the shopping patterns of today’s brides. By that, I don’t mean how they spend their hard-earned money, but instead, HOW these women literally shop for a wedding gown.

It used to be that a newly engaged woman would bring only her mother (or closest female relative) with her for this important, hopefully, “once-in-a-lifetime” shopping experience. It used to be a very intimate, emotional and special time for a mother and daughter. After all, isn’t it “every mother’s dream” to one day shop for a wedding gown with their daughter?

I’m not sure who sent out the memo to every bride across the country, but the trend has now changed… Today’s bride feels compelled to invite everyone she knows — in addition to her mother — to shop for her wedding gown! I call it “Posse Shopping”. I have seen as many as 13 to 15 people come into my store with one bride to help her shop for her gown! These situations are not only overwhelming for the store’s sales staff, but also prove to be especially challenging for the bride. So challenging, in fact, that many times she makes the WRONG decision when choosing her gown.

Included in these small armies may (or may not) be: The bride’s mother, sister, mother-in-law-to-be, maid of honor, sister-in-law-to-be, her mother’s best friend, ALL of her BRIDESMAIDS, her second cousin once removed on her father’s side, her 10 year old niece, the gay male friend with “INCREDIBLE” taste… you get the picture.

The following are familiar scenarios that occur in bridal salons all across the country, be they large or small:

Scenario 1, Group of 7: The bride really loves a dress she puts on in the dressing room. She admires it in the mirror and is excited to show her group the lovely vintage-looking lace gown she’s so beautifully wearing. She emerges from the dressing room and hears a chorus of “Oh, nooooo… Take it off!”, “That’s not you!”, “That dress looks like my grandmother’s curtains!!!”, “Next!” And then, her mom simply says, “I think you can do better, honey.”

Downtrodden, she drags herself back into the dressing room, wishing she had come alone.

Scenario 2, Group of 10: All of her bridesmaids and her first cousin. Her bridesmaids are hung over from the night before and are chatting and giggling about the hunky guy one of them met at some dive bar they visited last night. Her cousin’s boyfriend just broke up with her and she’s a complete trainwreck. Heartbroken and jealous, she can’t get past the fact that she should be the one getting married, not her cousin. As the bride emerges from the dressing room in a lovely choice, her cousin blurts out, “Oh my Gawd, I would NEVER wear that!” The rest shout differing opinions, and give advice left and right. After a few more dresses, some appear to lose interest while others talk on their cell phones. None of them are asking which gown the BRIDE likes best. Consequently, the bride leaves confused and disappointed, and wishes she had just come with her best friend.

Scenario 3, Group of 8: The bride’s strategy is to take a poll of her posse’s favorite dresses. Four vote for the satin ball gown. Two vote for the dress at the store they all went to last weekend. One vote for the dress that the bride loves the best, a mermaid. Satin ballgown has the most votes… the bride isn’t really a satin lover but she trusts her friends’ taste. After all, that’s why she brought them, they have good taste. And, they know what looks good on her, right? Maybe the mermaid isn’t the best choice for her, even though in her heart she REALLY loves it. In the end, she purchases the satin ball gown. A month later, after many tears and sleepless nights, the bride calls the store to see if she can cancel the order because she thinks she’s made a mistake. But it’s too late. The dress is already in works. She either has to buy a SECOND dress that she really loves, or she lives to regret her decision every time she looks at her wedding photos.

Get the picture?

When did brides become so insecure in their decision making? Maybe there’s just too much information and pressure for brides out there with the internet, bridal bloggers, staged photo shoots, celebrities and reality shows all trying to influence her? Is every bride afraid they will have their own personal Joan and Melissa Rivers at their wedding saying, “What was she thinking?”???
The experts and other brides will say that shopping for a gown can be a stressful time. Society’s pressures make it even more so today. I am not saying that brides shouldn’t take anyone with them to shop for their gown. I’m just saying that they should resist the need to please everyone else, and instead make sure they please themselves.

Here’s my advice…

When a bride goes on her most special shopping trip, she should only bring her most trusted core group. It’s ok if this is just one special person, or a few special people. But do try to keep the group to no more than three. Most importantly, a bride should never forget to listen to her heart. She should always choose those friends and loved ones who will not project their tastes onto hers. She should bring along the ones who know her taste, will listen to her, be truthful yet respectful and… will help her choose the right gown for HER. After all, it is still about the bride, isn’t it?!


Vera Wang Surprises with Black Wedding Dresses

OMG! Look at these dramatic noir wedding gowns courtesy bridal design maven, Vera Wang. These special occasion frocks, cleverly named Witchcraft, are the hottest news coming out of this week’s New York Couture Bridal Fashion Week. Critics are calling the gowns, complete with heavy drama skirts, lace overlays, illusion tops and sweetheart necklines, maudlin. Wang also showed gowns in nude, too. I think these black gowns are fresh. (The birds nest hair is not a requirement.) Nineteenth century monarch, Queen Victoria set the standard for white gowns in the 1800s, so it is time for a change. What do you think about these gowns? Other hot news out of New York’s bridal fashion week: Design duo Badgley Mischka created a ribbon-trimmed to- die for collection of dramatic strapless white gowns. See here. Stiff? Maybe, but gowns that feature sweetheart necklines and fishtail bottoms are quite amazing. And it looks like bridal designers aren’t doing a bevy of long-sleeved gowns per the lead Catherine Duchess of Cambridge. Read about it here I still think long sleeved gowns will be desired by brides, it’s just that it takes time for our eyes to get used to it. But then again, there is something about strapless gowns that say princess. I’m so torn.
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The 2011 Colorful Wedding Jewelry Trend

The 2011 Colorful Wedding Jewelry Trend

If you watched the 2011 Academy Awards, you probably noticed that a huge trend on the red carpet was jewelry with a lot of strong color. Saturated hues are a wonderful way to give jewelry notice and give a dress originality. As so many brides take their inspiration from celebrity fashion, colorful jewelry is going to be a huge trend for 2011 weddings. Add style to your own celebration by looking at the colorful jewelry trends.

Colorful jewelry is fabulous for bridesmaids. Adding a favorite hue to the bridesmaid jewelry is a terrific way to coordinate it with the bridesmaid dresses, and also to make it unique and memorable. There are many possibilities for bridesmaid jewelry with colors, depending on the style of your wedding. Swarovski pearls in lovely shades will be a beautiful choice for your bridesmaid earrings and necklace, if you are having a fairly traditional wedding. The Swarovski pearls are available in bolder and more saturated hues than freshwater pearls, which makes them ideal for bold and strong colored wedding jewelry sets.

Swarovski crystals are available in almost any shade that you could ever imagine, so they will work wonderfully for bridesmaid jewelry or stunning bridal jewelry sets when sparkle is desired. Rather than matching them exactly, choose a hue which contrast with the bridesmaid dress, to create a great modern look. For a fresh summery effect, pair a peridot green crystal pendant with a yellow bridesmaid dress. A more subtle variation on this theme is to choose necklaces and earrings which are a deeper saturation of the bridesmaid dress color. A navy blue crystal tin cup necklace would be stunning with a light blue dress, or pair a fuchsia crystal pendant with rose colored bridesmaid dresses. Go very bold with your jewelry colors since that is the trend for 2011.

A really fun idea is to create custom bridesmaid jewelry sets in a mixture of colors. This can be done by combining several shades of crystals, or by pairing colorful crystals with Swarovski pearls. Be really creative and use your imagination! Perhaps a custom Swarovski necklace made from bronze pearls and garnet crystals would be the perfect bridesmaid jewelry for an autumn wedding. Or maybe a pair of earrings with alternating emerald and navy crystals would be just the thing for your evening celebration. Bold and colorful bridesmaid jewelry makes for a wonderful gift!

In 2011 brides can take advantage of the colorful jewelry trends. There is no reason to think that white pearls are the right choice just because you are the bride. Choosing a bold colored pair of earrings or a necklace will show that you are a confident and secure in your own style. Emeralds were a hot red carpet trend for 2011, so why not splurge on a pair of wonderful emerald green crystal chandelier earrings? For your “something blue” choose a blue crystal and pearl bracelet. The whole idea is to be creative and expressive, so feel free to chose whatever color of bridal jewelry appeals to you.

Personalize your outfit with the perfect jewelry. For 2011 weddings, boldly colored jewelry is a terrific way to make a statement while adding style to a bridal gown or bridesmaid dress. Best of all, you will find that bold and outgoing colored jewelry will be very versatile to wear when the wedding is over.


Accessory options for brides saying no to the veil

By Nola Sarkisian-Miller
CTW Features

Think feathers are for the birds? Think again.

Brides-to-be are cottoning to the fact that a little plumage is a nice alternative to veils.

Chic feathered headpieces were on view at Romona Keveza’s Fall 2010 collection. Other non-veil options – such as dimensional flowers, pearly brooches and headbands – are among the latest hair adornments framing down-dos, chignons and side-swept tresses as brides shy away from covering their heads in tulle and lace.

“Brides are drifting away from veils,” says Sara Mack, manager of operations at Destiny’s Bride, a boutique in Scottsdale, Ariz., which carries accessories by Toni Federici and Renee Pawele Bride. “Brides are doing more with their hair, embracing softer looks, and these hair accessories are a perfect complement. “

Mack adds that brides tend to pick more understated pieces. Not over-the-top numbers like the feathered headpiece Sarah Jessica Parker’s character wore in her attempt at matrimony in the “Sex and the City” movie two years ago. Feather flower looks with rhinestone center sprays are popular, she says, along with oversized organza flowers in silk white that can resemble flora from a gardenia to a dahlia.

Hair brooches, designed with Swarovski crystals and pearls, lend an air of vintage elegance to a bride. She can fasten one in the back if her hair is worn up or clip it on the side.

The delicate nature of the accessory means a bride can wear it with a veil, if need be.

“Lots of girls will wear the brooch and a veil as a compromise to their mothers,” says Cheryl DeSimone, a sales representative at Clarissa Bridal in Walnut Creek, Calif. “Mothers do love those veils.”

For a hint of shine and a mood of romance, brides are choosing to wear multiple sparkly hairpins or dainty headbands embellished with a small bow or tiny crystals, says Kirstin Martin, owner of Smitten, a wedding boutique in Chicago.

Prices for such hair finery can range from $40 to $50 for feathered combs and hairpins, $100 to $200 for headbands and $200 to $300 for intricate floral styles. The upside for brides is that unlike a veil, they can wear their purchases again after the wedding for a night out or to a party.

The key is to select something that fits in with the bride’s personality and not what may be a trend. “When you look back at those pictures 10 years from now, you don’t want to say, ‘What was I thinking?’” Martin says.


Kleinfeld’s Nicole Vega tells me what its all about

Nicole's favorite pair of the many gloves the salon offers.

Stylish and petite Nicole Vega, the accessory manager at Kleinfeld’s bridal salon knows everything about bridal accessories in New York.  After all she is planning her own wedding.  There is a major divide between what East and West Coast brides are demanding for bridal accessories.  Does she know something I don’t know???  I was thrilled by the accessory she recently stocked in the salon.  Gloves!  It seems the vintage revival is also including a resurgence in beautiful lace and silk gloves.  Kleinfeld’s has a designer Stacey  that custom fits the gloves to the bride.  I found myself day dreaming of my old idol Madonna desperately thinking how I could wear gloves in my life.  Now I know why I have seen the young hipsters in the New York bars styled up in couture cuffs!  Nicole’s main issue is how she will incorporate gloves in her own bridal ensemble as her favorite bridal accessory is the headpiece!   I look forward to how she will style herself for her own wedding next year!


Achieving a Flawless Look for Wedding Photos

S Logan Blog Wedding pictures hold some of the happiest memories of a lifetime, so be sure you consider all the angles when preparing to be photographed on the big day.

In the weeks and months leading up to the wedding…

Plan your procedures ahead – it’s easy to get caught up in the craziness of tastings, fittings and appointments and forget to schedule facial treatments until the last minute. Don’t be tempted to get cosmetic lasering or chemical peels within 10 days to a month of the event, depending on the exact type of laser or peel. Even something as simple as a facial should be given a solid week prior to the wedding for skin to normalize, especially if any extractions will be performed. Call well ahead of time and discuss this with the technician.

Practice good skin health – stay hydrated and eat healthfully leading up to the event. Don’t try new skincare products, or anything that may irritate your skin. Anticipate your skin’s history, and treat it accordingly depending on changes your skin may experience in the climate or weather that’s expected at the venue.

For the big day…

Start with a good base – be sure that your foundation is the right color and formulation for your skin. You may feel like you should use a heavy cream or stick foundation since you’re being photographed, but heavier formulas will look caked on and are more likely leave a line of demarcation around the neck and hairline that’s tougher to blend away. Just stick with the liquid or powder that works for you, and be sure it’s properly matched to your color. No one wants to look washed out, but it can also age you a bit if your base is too dark for you. Color correcting concealers, like green or yellow for redness, and peach or yellow for undereye circles are a much better choice than simply layering on more makeup. Remember that redness will be easily picked up in photographs so take care to balance that out, and stay away from more pink based foundations.

Avoid the shiny look – glitter will reflect too much on camera, and shouldn’t be worn to a nice event like a wedding anyway. Radiance -enhancing or shimmery foundations make faces look too slick and shiny for photos, so if you must, only keep the sheen on cheekbones and the cupid’s bow for highlighting purposes. Always finish the t-zone with powder, which is especially important to balance any highlighting applied. If you know you’re more oily, pop pressed powder in your bag so that you stay shine free.

The eyes have it – keep in mind that darker eyeshadows and heavy liner make eyes look smaller. A matte or pearl shadow formula will be universally flattering and especially in warm, earthy tones. To keep eyes looking big and bright, highlight the inner corners and brow bone with an off-white, light pink or pale gold shadow or crayon. The older you are, the more important it is to stay fast to the no shimmer rule, as it tends to bring attention to fine lines. Black eyeliner can also look too harsh for older women (same goes for liquid liner) and fair blondes are more suited for eyeliner and mascara in the brown tones. Don’t forget to make sure brows are properly framing the face- everyone looks better and younger with defined brows. Fill the arches with powder or if using a pencil, blend with a brush. Brow color and size are important considerations here, so don’t forget to use a light hand and blend.

Consider your venue and lighting – do take the time to stop and think about if the event/photos will be taking place indoors or out, and at what time of day. Indoor photos will be taken with flash, so it’s important to use powder to combat shine and to also be sure foundation is matched well. If outdoors, soften makeup a bit as it can easily look too heavy or harsh. Also adjust your makeup look for more formal locations, and later times in the evening. When considering these factors, you will want to use more color and definition over simply adding more makeup.

Keeping these ideas in mind, remember its always most important to look like yourself and feel comfortable on your wedding day. These techniques will help ensure you look flawless both in person and in photographs for years to come.

Content provided by Sarah Logan on behalf of Aesthetics Science Institute, a beauty school offering aesthetics certification classes and specialized coursework in cosmetic laser training and microdermabrasion certification.